I didn't really mean to sound pessimistic, or desperate in my last post. I was just feeling a small bit of rejection, and I needed some sort of catharsis. But feeling bad for AidelKnaidel time is now over. For now.
It's just that, for my entire teenage years, I have been envisioning the shidduch age. I always knew it was hard and all, but I never imagined it was like this. I honestly thought that you come home from Seminary, and your phone is ringing with suggestions. I did not know that this only happens when the boys come back from Yeshiva. Hah. With girls, you practically have to beg.
I am so young. I know. I don't mean to sound annoying, and low, and just desperate. I'm not. I have plenty of time, I am quite busy... and I will be acquiring my BA in another year and a half. But, the longing is still there. It isn't as strong as my older counterparts. But it is there. And the rejection hurts at eighteen as much as it does as twenty one.
Sorry- will write longer as soon as I finish with my round of exams.
Thursday, November 8, 2007
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I PROMISE PROMISE PROMISE YOU, bli neder, that this will pass. Eighteen! You honestly have so much to do and live and within the next few months, you will find yourself AND your besherte...So don't fret! Just enjoy! Don't waste time worrying, because wasting time is not only counter-productive, but it's time you can't get back once you are in a fabulous, loving relationship!
Please enjoy your time now. You will never have such freedom again and this is your chance to grow and become the real you with your own opinions.
"I did not know that this only happens when the boys come back from Yeshiva."
Seriously, that never happened to me.
Then again, I didn't go to Yeshiva in Israel.
Take it easy, kid.
Next post, we want to hear about something positive that you did lately.
Fun fun!
Go out, get laid, and give it 10 years :)
I remember 18. Just be careful. Know that sometimes when girls marry too young, they soon regret the decision. I know society places pressure on us. It stinks. I know. I'm over 21, so I'm OLD.
Haha. I was saying that I am NOT depressed. I know that I am so young and have so much to do.
But thanks :)
you will do great don't worry.
btw what's your ba in?
I know...
Just realize that this is NOT "rejection" (as you termed it); the phone-ringing-as-you-get-off-the-plane is a total myth. I don't know a single (or married :-P) person it happened to.
You're sooo lucky. No phone ringing off the hook. Imagine what a pain it would be to wade through all those offers...
;-)
AM, I will share with you and your readers something that was told me many years ago. Relax and enjoy life. A seminary girls says, oh I wish I was engaged already. A calla, says oh, just want it to be after the Chasana, then you just want Sheva Brochas to be through, so you can sleep and settle down, Then its , oh I wish the Shana Rishona was over, then you cant wait for a baby, then a second baby.
Finally, when you have a newborn and a toddler, all you can think about is, I wish I was just a girl in Seminary again.. Marriage and family is great, dont get me wrong, but theres no rush..
Michelle, your not old.. You are mature and wise, of all my friends, the ones that got married at 22, seem happier and more well-adjusted then the ones who got married at 18-19..
AM, I will share with you and your readers something that was told me many years ago. Relax and enjoy life. A seminary girls says, oh I wish I was engaged already. A calla, says oh, just want it to be after the Chasana, then you just want Sheva Brochas to be through, so you can sleep and settle down, Then its , oh I wish the Shana Rishona was over, then you cant wait for a baby, then a second baby.
Finally, when you have a newborn and a toddler, all you can think about is, I wish I was just a girl in Seminary again.. Marriage and family is great, dont get me wrong, but theres no rush..
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